How (Not!) To Write Your Online Dating Profile

You've only got seconds to make a first impression and nailing your profile is essential for successful online dating. Here we provide tips and advice how to create a standout profile and examples of common profile mistakes and how you can avoid them. 

Online dating profile example - what (not) to write on your online dating profile on  free and paid Australia dating sites. Online dating advice, online dating tips, online dating strategies.   eDateMate Australia.

Profile Photo

Pictures are part of your first impression; so don’t give your matches a reason to pass you over. This girl's primary photo (which  appears in your matches search results) is  taken too far away and it doesn't 'pop' from the screen with her choice of clothing and colouring. She has missed a crucial opportunity to show off her best assets. 


Why work so hard on your profile, only to become an unoriginal Rach1979?  Get creative with a name that evokes positive association, is unique and easy to remember.


You may be a “happy gal” but don’t waste valuable profile space on a boring headline. Your headline is one extra opportunity to let your personality shine and attract the attention of a potential match. 


Whilst this profile projects positivity, it is filled to the brim with generic adjectives such as outgoing, funny and adventurous.  Avoid overused phrases clichés and inject your personality and sense of style into your profile write-up. For example, get specific about the type of travelling you do. People act on a dating profile when they can see themselves as part of your story. 

Avoid negative statements (and in capitals LIKE YOU ARE YELLING) such as “guys game players need not apply” will scream bitter ex whose not over their past relationships and full of unwanted baggage.

Lastly you should do a spell check on your profile! There are spelling mistakes and short-hand abbreviations in this profile which only detract from the message. People will see the mistake, rather than what you have written. 

Need Help Writing Your Profile?

Even after googling everything you need to know about the most 'desirable' profile, it can still be hard to write about yourself. Should you be funny? Charming? Intellectual? Does it reflect who you really are and what you want in a partner, or does it read like a cheesy personal from the 80's? Should you be completely honest or try to position yourself so you sound a little better?  Well let us do the hard work for you…

Our job is to market your number one product - YOU! 

At eDateMate we offer a personalised online dating profile writing service. We will write your profile from scratch or critique your existing profile with tangible advice for improvement. We will help you select your very best profile photos and create a catchy headline and username to hook your matches interest.  A one-stop-shop for your online dating ventures.  It's our job to make you standout from the crowd and attract your ideal match. Whether you're new to online dating or haven't had much luck,  we have packages to suit all your needs. 

Why Online Dating is like looking for your Dream Job

Online dating is no different to looking for your dream job and here's why...

Online dating is no different to looking for your dream job. Modern day dating must include a proactive approach and old dating rules tossed out the window.  eDateMate Australia.

Both represent you to a world full of strangers who will decide on whether to call you in for an interview - your first date.  

Your CV (profile) will make or break your chances. Profiles consist of a series of photos and a description about you.

During your JOB SEARCH (online dating search) you will checkout multiple job vacancies (profiles) to see if there is a fit for your character and skill.

Your COVER LETTER (first email message) is a teaser that lets someone know you’re serious about getting the job.

If you catch the attention of a COMPANY (potential match) they will go on to read your CV (profile).

Your INTERVIEW (first date) is used by both sides to decide whether it’s worth starting a working (personal) relationship with each other

Why Would I Pay For A Professional Service to Help Me?

Nailing your profile is essential. Think of it this way. If two people applied for the same job, and one person has a resume filled with experience, detailing the many reasons they'd be right for the job, and another person has a resume which reads unoriginal and looks like it was written in five minutes, who do you think will get noticed?  Of course, you wouldn't even get in the door with a poorly presented resume.

You can write the profile yourself or use our personalised service to write it for you, but the important thing is you give it the attention it deserves.   

If falling in love is as important to you as finding your ideal job, it's only logical to take the time to make dating profile the best it can be. And if you play to win you'll be one click closer to finding your ideal match.